Mutual Masturbation: Couple Masturbating Together To Enhance Their Intimacy
Masturbation is the act of sexual self stimulation. The word is usually used with reference to one’s stimulation of one's own genitals, usually to orgasm, although the orgasm is not a requisite for the act to be labeled masturbation. This may be performed manually, i.e. using ones hands or fingers, or by other types of contact with objects, or with another body, or a combination of these methods. However, the point to be noted is that contact with another’s body, in masturbation, does not include intercourse. Also, some types of sexual rubbing are also known as frottage. Read more below.
Masturbation a form of autoeroticism, the most common form, in fact, so much so, that the two – masturbation and autoeroticism-- are often used as synonymous and interchangeable words. An interesting and usual form of masturbation, for couples, is mutual masturbation, or a couple masturbating together in front of a partner. This is a fairly common form of sexual activity among couples, and has many relationship benefits for couples that engage in it.
Masturbation enhances sexual awareness, allows a person to learn and discover their own sexuality and, as a result, improves their understanding of, and sensitivity toward, their partners. In short, mutual masturbation becomes an activity that has numerous positive relationship benefits. When mutual masturbation or manual stimulation is used as a tool during intercourse, or as a part of foreplay, it usually leads to a much more enhanced sexual response, and can add an extra dimension to the act of lovemaking. Also, since the seat of sexual sensations in women is the clitoris, which receives very little direct stimulation during actual penetrative sex; manual stimulation by the woman herself, or her partner, can help achieve better sensations and faster orgasms.
In most cases couples don’t masturbate together, either one or both couples masturbate in secret. The reason that they are unable to share the fact is due to an overwhelming sense of guilt, and residual taboos. Masturbation is quite often totally different than sex, and isn't replaced by regular sex, contrary to expectations. An open discussion of masturbation techniques, can lead to a better understanding of each partner’s needs. Being able to masturbate together in front of one’s partner, and together with your partner, is the next step, and can open previously unexplored forms and means of sexual communication. With more openness and willingness to share such intimacy, come better trust and a decline in insecurity.
There is often a gap in communication regarding the right kind of stimulation needed by each partner during sex. Since everyone has different needs and wants a failure to communicate openly or clearly can lead to a lot of frustration. Masturbating in front of one’s partner can show, rather than tell, the partner exactly what one likes, and how. This can only lead to better sex between couples as partners learn the necessary “strokes” to give their partner better satisfaction.
In addition, watching one’s partner masturbate can be an incredible “turn on.” So, even if one partner is too shy to demonstrate, or perhaps is not in the habit of masturbating, the other partner should feel free to demonstrate their masturbation style in front of them. This will excite the shyer partner, and can lower their sexual inhibitions quickly. The fewer inhibitions there are within a couple, the better it is for their sexual life.
Mutual Masturbation is a way to masturbate, with two or more people who stimulate each other using their hands. It can be performed in situations when individuals aren’t interested in sex, to explore sexuality, or it can be used as foreplay. Mutual masturbation can be an intimate sexual activity for all sexual orientations, but has been preferred by males, and couples. However, female mutual masturbation is becoming as popular and
Techniques of mutual masturbation are similar to regular masturbation just with an additional person, a male or a female. The interaction for mutual masturbation can be two people masturbating in each others presence without touching or two or more people stimulating each other. An individual can stimulate their partner or partners can stimulate each other or an individual can stimulate themselves and their partner. Male on male, male on female, and female on female mutual masturbation can often be an exciting learning experience about each other.
Mutual masturbation is fun, intimate and is a great addition to any couples sex life. Mutual masturbation enhances sexual awareness, allows a couple to learn and discover their sexual pleasures while gaining an understanding of each others sexual needs. Mutual masturbation when used prior to intercourse or as foreplay, will lead to a much more enhanced sexual response, adding an extra dimension to your lovemaking!!
Masturbation is a popular activity for couples. Watching your mate masturbate is arousing and a great choice of foreplay. Some couples have one person who is more comfortable masturbating while being watched. Get the most from masturbating foreplay by relaxing and realizing that your mate enjoys watching you.
Dim the lights, play some soft music and get comfortable. Lie back on the bed with your mate lying next to you or lying the opposite way watching you. Communicate what makes you comfortable so both of you enjoy the act of masturbation.
Ask your mate for help in getting aroused. They can tell you an erotic story or how they plan on pleasing you. Close your eyes and visualize the story. Slowly start rubbing your thighs, nipples or stomach. Turn your attention to your more sensitive areas after your mate gets aroused. Don't focus only on sensitive areas if you want full enjoyment from shared masturbation.
Masturbate with your mate's guidance. Let them tell you what to do and follow their lead. After your mate has had control for a few minutes, start doing things your way again. Include movements your mate enjoyed watching when they were in control along with movements you enjoy.
Perform mutual masturbation. Lie facing each other and slowly start caressing and massaging each others bodies. Then, let them place their hand over yours while you masturbate, giving them the choice of directing pressure and speed. Return the favor when your mate is ready for stimulation.
Use an erotic toy when you masturbate. Let your mate help by giving them the toy while you continue using your fingers and hands. Give your mate control again by letting them direct how you use the toy.
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I find that there is nothing more exciting than sitting in my chair in my bedroom with my legs draped over the chair-arms and exploring my body while watching my lover stroke himself off (by watching me). Seeing his excitement literally swell up from within, and knowing I cause it, gets me soaked. I can have several orgasms before he can finish. It's a very good way to start an evening.. click here !
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