Heterosexual Couples Are Buying Strap-ons for Pegging at Record Numbers
More heterosexual couples are practicing pegging in the bedroom. Pegging is a growing trend that has gone mainstream. Guys It's Ok To Have Anal Sex With Your Wife or Girlfriend !
Xandria, the adult toy retailer, founded in 1974 by Gaye and Roy Raymond, who went on to start Victoria's Secret is selling more strap-ons to heterosexual couples than ever before. Read Full Story >>>
Wearing My Strap-on Is Empowering . . .
I love pegging my husband with my strap-on !
The first time I used a strap-on was with mu husband , it was very new to me and I didn't know what i was doing then I was always using one, it got me very wet and feeling great about myself. It felt good ,i also had alot of fun using it now i can't get enough of it. Read the Full story - Click here >>>
Convincing Your Partner To Try Pegging for the First Time
How can you approach your lady…and let her know that pegging is what you fantasize about, dream about…that you’d like nothing more than to have her slide a smooth silicone cock slowly up your ass?
And how can you get this idea across without her thinking…you are a freak/gay/twisted/weird?
I will do my very best to try and help you here…but please realize there are many contributing factors. While some of you may be able to just casually mention your interest and quickly find yourselves shopping for the right dildo, others will find that despite their best efforts, their partner won’t consider pegging…at all, period, end of discussion, case closed. But let us remain hopeful…Read the Full Story - click here >>>
Strap-on Sex Provides A Visual Treat That Many Lovers Find Exciting
"The dresssing up adds so much, I absolutely adore pegging my man, love the role reversal and listerning to his moans and sighs as I slowly enter him from behind with my very large and rather intimidating strapon..." Read the Full Story - click here >>>
Most of the time it is the men who want to convince their woman to peg them. This article is for you gentlemen.
For you gentlemen who have an established relationship and you want more than anything to convince your partner to peg you…what is the best way to do this?
Got You Pegged
This might be a difficult post for some of you to read, but I've made an important discovery that I have to share. It is both juvenile and somewhat explicit, so consider yourself warned.
Usher likes it in the butt.
Now now, before anyone gets all fired up, I'm not saying he's gay. I'm just saying that he enjoys the practice of pegging, in which the woman in a heterosexual pairing dons a strap-on and... yeah. How do I know this? Well, Usher told me! In fact, he tells us all in his new song, "Trading Places."
Give it a listen: Trading Places
I'm always on the top
tonight I'm on the bottom
Cuz we trading places
Now, I know a man can be on the bottom without necessarily engaging in the aforementioned sex act, but view Exhibit B:
Now put it on me baby till I say Oooo weee
And tell me to shut up before the neighbors hear me
This is how it feels when you do it like me
See what I mean? He's not even trying to be coy here. This shit is blatant. A bit after these fine lyrics, we get a good thirty seconds of Usher moaning and screaming in ecstasy/agony, followed by this classy conclusion:
Stay tuned for part 2
You been me I been you
But we gonna switch this thing back
Ima put it on your...
Cute, eh? But he pretty much admits it here - I mean, he says he's "been" her, and really, what's the opposite of him "putting it on her (The song cuts off, but I assume the word is ass - what else fits here?)"
I rest my case.
Anal Sex for Heterosexual Men
Does that sound like an oxymoron to you? If you think only gay guys can enjoy anal sex, you’ve got it all wrong. Straight men are taking the plunge and loving every minute of it!
Come on guys, it’s time to stop calling everyone you don’t like an “asshole” and start loving the one you own. Our Puritanical heritage comes down the hardest on this neglected part of the body and we remain a nation of “tight asses.” As long as the anus is seen as dirty and disgusting, we will never discover the sexual pleasures of this wonderful erogenous zone. Read the Full Story - click here >>>
Pegging: The Pleasure Sensation Sweeping a Nation
Have you heard about the latest pleasure sensation that is sweeping the nation? It’s called pegging and since August is “National Anal Sex Month”, what better time than to give your secondary entrance a try?
Men are no strangers to anal sex. Some have been known to beg, barter and bribe in exchange for some time in the back door. But there is a myth that claims if you are a man on the receiving end of anal sex, you are gay. This could not be further from the truth. Read the Full Story - click here >>>
Brittany Andrews Strap-on Queen !
Brittany Andrews Is simply beautiful and very talented and she is really into pegging. Learn more >>>
My Husband Loves Watching Me Walk Around The House Wearing My Strap-on !
She walked by at just the same time and smiled and said “isn’t that a beautiful bling harness”. Later that afternoon she explained that her husband had been on the receiving end for several years and it was very fulfilling for of them. Read Full Story - click here >>>
Using A Strap-on
Looking to try pegging for the first time or want to have a good harness and dildo of your own? This set from Sport Sheets has everything you need: a one size fits many harness, three interchangeable o-rings, and a dildo. It is easy to adjust, comfortable to wear, and fun to use! Read Full Story - click here >>>
Pegging My Man - It's All About Love !
So often, pegging is depicted as an act of dominance. Do we sometimes play that way? Sure. But there is clearly another reason why we do it. We do it because prostate orgasms are awesome.
A couple of weeks ago I was helping a girlfriend move. While upstairs packing I opened her nightstand and there was a strapon staring back at me.
It’s important to get the right harness !
I'm not Gay, Pegging Just Happens !
I'm not gay and I've been married for seven years. We got into pegging simply over time being together and exploring our sexuality.
Pegging just kind of happened. Yes, I like my wife to use a strap on me but I love going down on her.
I love the taste of her vagina. But when she plays with my ass and massages my prostate or makes me bend over it's just incredible. It feels good and the role playing sexual fantasy of being dominated by my wife just makes for great sex. Read the Full Story - click here >>>
Convincing Him to Try Pegging
First, communication is the key. You need to be able to ask for what you want. If you can’t open your mouth and talk with your partner about sex, he is not going to magically intuit that you want to fuck him up the ass with a dildo.
Take a good long look at your relationship first. Do your very best to practice Dan Savage‘s GGG – Good, Giving and Game. “Think ‘good in bed,’ ‘giving equal time and equal pleasure,’ and ‘game for anything—within reason.’ Read the Full Story- click here >>>
"We'll keep this PG-13 and just say ... the people in the video are both givers." Sounds like mutual oral sex to us, but rumor-mongering blogs have decided that Usher and his wife are into pegging. Read the Full Story - click here >>>
Pegging 101: What You Need To Know
How to get started with female on male sex toy play. Pegging. Maybe you've heard about it, maybe you've tried it—or maybe you want to, but don't know where to begin. Read the Full Story - click here >>>
This simple act of using a strap-on dildo to take your husband’s ass will have him eating out of your hand, almost tripping over his own feet in the desire to please you and satisfy your wishes. Read the full Story - click here >>>
New To Pegging ? Go With the Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit
The perfect introductory kit for a couples strap-on experience, Bend over beginner harness kit features soft purple velvet harness that expands up to a 50 inch waist, two smooth 100% silicone dildos, Read the Full Story - Click Here >>>
A Beginner’s Guide To Pegging
It’s a girl with a strap-on and a guy who wants some. But is it domination?
A sex tape featuring Usher and his ex-wife, Tameka Foster, is being shopped around, and rumor has it the activities are slightly kinky. TMZ reports:
Pegging 4 Dummies !
A woman should peg her husband regularly if she wants to get the most miles out of him.
Having Strapless Anal Sex With My Man
Couples Speak Out On Having Anal Sex With Their Partners
Why on earth was it necessary to give straight couples a specific word for a man being fucked with a strap-on (pegging)
Strapless Pegging with the Feeldoe More – Double Ended Dildo. This is more than I ever imagined I would find in a toy! It is absolutely brilliant...leading to beautiful and incredibly fulfilling sexual experiences..
I love it, so many nerve endings and at the same time the prostate gets massaged/stimulated; Read more >>>
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Jaiya On Anal Play for Men - Pegging & Prostate Massage
Jaiya is one of the most progressive and well educated sexual wellness experts. She works with couples and singles to help them overcome intimacy issues, deepening connection and communication, leading to the creation of more fulfilling relationships. Jaiya holds certifications as a Somatic Sexologist, Sexological Bodyworker, and Tantra Teacher. When Random House needed their newest sex expert they sought out Jaiya and she co-authored the book Red Hot Touch:
A Head To Toe Handbook for Mind-Blowing Orgasms with her co-teacher Jon Hanauer. Together they also created their best-selling, award winning DVD series by the same title. Jaiya strives to eradicate sexual shame and invites those she works with to explore how much pleasure they can possibly experience. Jaiya recently dove into a new frontier of sensuality as she took her own life experience of becoming a mother and is now coaching other women through the journey of orgasmic birth. With a background in Theatrical arts she brings fun, creativity and sexiness to her teaching.
You may have seen her on Playboy’s #1 rated show “Foursome” as a Tantra Expert, The Tyra Banks Show talking about Alternative Relationships or one of her many Sex With Jaiya videos as a spokes model for Liberator. Jaiya features her work on her weekly syndicated radio show that draws hundreds of thousands of listeners.
Dr. Ruthie On Exploring Pegging With Your Partner !
"Lots of people come to me asking about anal sex and anal play. Many men want to know, How do I ask my partner for a prostate massage. How to I introduce it to my partner. What's the right word, what's the magic phrase."
A Deeper Prostating of the Obvious
by Daniel W Kelly
Published: March 31, 2009
The ins and outs (and ins!) of advanced prostate play - and yes, we're breaking out the toys!
From Beginner to Intermediate
If you’ve arrived at this spot, then it’s safe to assume that you’ve found your spot (aka: your prostate), perhaps thanks to the ‘prep’ course in “Prostating the Obvious.” Now that you’re sure of your sexual wants, your masculinity is intact, you’ve let go of inhibitions about your anus and rectum, and have been probing around a bit, you’re ready to push that hot button harder to experience explosive orgasms. So sit back, relax, and let’s start pushing.
Foreplay in the Aft
Way too eager straight men, gay men, and girls with prostates (you know who you are) sometimes go right for the six inch (or more) dildo the first time, and then find themselves traumatized by the discomfort experienced. It’s very easy to envision in your head how hot it will be to swallow that thing whole (I know, they make it look so easy in the movies), but even the most voracious asses worked their way up over time. One way to prep is with some form of douching or an enema. Not only are you cleaning yourself for the fun to come, but you’re also relaxing the muscles back there and practicing lubricating your anus then inserting something in it. A simple system like the Unisex Douche will do the trick nicely. For hardcore enema fetishists who can handle extreme amounts of water up their works, there are enema kits that easily connect right to your shower, such as the Universal Water Works System, which has a soft jelly dong that inserts in your anus—very similar to many of the toys you’ll be using soon after your cleansing. Whatever system you use, you might very well find yourself really enjoying the cleansing experience. Just don’t make it a habit or it can become, well, a habit.
With the cleansing out of the way, you can warm your anus up in several ways, teasing it into submission. Have your partner tickle your anus and the surrounding area gently with a well lubricated finger, and add a sexy latex or nitrile glove for protection from both STDs and fingernails. When your perianal area is brushed over lightly, the nerve endings quickly come alive, and before long, your anus will be quivering with anticipation. Another surefire way to prep is to have your partner give you a rim job, an incredibly intense oral experience that has the same effect. Again, protection is available in the form of dental dams. And for anal virgins, there are first timer dildos and strap-ons that are about the size of a finger. These are wonderful tools for experiencing an actual fucking, and you’ll soon find that you’re ready to move on to bigger and better toys. Just read some of the customer reviews for these starter kits here on EdenFantasys and you’ll see many of the men saying it wasn’t long before they were ready to try out larger sizes.
One way for partners to prepare for a night of prostate pleasure is to play master and servant. For instance, if you’re the one who’s going to be doing the penetrating, give your bottom boy a butt plug as a gift, and instruct him to insert it a couple of hours before your planned tryst (with lube of course!) and keep it in there as he goes about his daily routine, his anal muscles gradually relaxing to gladly accommodate the visitor. No doubt his hole and prostate will be aching (for more) by the time you are ready to begin the games. Once that plug is removed, desire will be coursing through his nerve endings, and he’ll be begging to have that void filled with something else. Something larger and more challenging! Just be sure that the butt plug of choice (and any anal toy you chose, for that matter) has a wide, sturdy, flanged base that won’t fold in and disappear up your partner’s bum, which can lead to a difficult retrieval, if not a trip to the emergency room. Also, unless you’re a power bottom built to be filled for extended periods of time, you should definitely monitor how the butt plug feels as you go about your business, and call a time out on the game if it really doesn’t feel comfortable.
The obvious way to find out just how big you want it is to try different lengths and widths in growing increments. This way, as your partner progressively grabs bigger and bigger toys to work into you, you can see the results and pat yourself on the back(side) when you’ve graduated to the next size. Sets such as the Booty Bumper Kit are perfect for such a scenario, since they come complete with several dildos in various sizes. The other option is a toy that actually increases in size as it extends down the shaft, such as the Pawn and the Screw Royal (which works just as it sounds like it does!). However, the varying size approach helps you better differentiate between the length and width that is best for you. A long, thin dildo might satisfy you perfectly while a dildo the same length with a large girth is uncomfortable. Or, length might be the issue—you might like ‘em short and fat! Toys that widen as they get to the base feed you width and length at the same time, making it more of a challenge to determine which dimension is the one that’s doing it for you (or not).
There is a happy medium. Anal beads feed you one ball at a time, and lock into place thanks to the narrow shaft between each bead, which lets you become accustomed to the feeling before moving on to the next larger size. Anal beads like these are fantastic for prostate massage, working wonders as they bounce over your button. Speed bumps might be wrong for your car, but they are a gift to your anus and prostate. Some anal beads even vibrate, like these, giving you an even more intense experience.
Making a Big Entrance: Advanced Anal Play
Once your anus has ‘grown’ accustomed to having toys inserted up it, the options are endless. Keep in mind when selecting your toys that toys made from porous materials should not be shared between partners without using protection. Yes, that means putting a condom on your toy. Non-porous toys will be made out of materials like silicone, hard plastic, glass, and metal.
A great couple toy is the double ended dildo. Take the Feeldoe More, which is basically a strapless strap-on. It is curved in such a way that when one partner inserts it, he or she becomes the top, and can then thrust with the other end into the bottom partner.
Thick and curvaceous, the Prostate Health by Tantus is not for first timers. Made of pure silicone, it is curved to fit the inner contours of your rectum and reach the prostate with its bulbous tip, both to pleasure and massage your prostate. Another nice prostate stimulator that will really fill you up is the Nexus Gyro.
Colt™ PowerBalls™ are hefty, nice sized…um…balls, and extra long at a whopping 20 inches! The chain link lets you keep a good hold on it. This is one toy that you can use to drive your man’s prostate wild. Be aware that Power Balls are made of rubber, a porous material, so they should not be shared between partners.
Whichever toys you use, never be ashamed to say “that hurts” or “more lube.” If it doesn’t feel good, don’t assume it will if you just grit your teeth. Your body (and booty) will let you know if things aren’t feeling right. ‘Listen’ to those sensations, and put a stop to any discomfort before it can cause any damage.
Avoiding a Pain in the Ass: It’s a Slippery Slope
Do yourself—and your asshole—a favor. Always use a lubricant before doing anal, preferably a product specifically made for anal play. By that, I mean not spit. Saliva dries up way too fast and can also put you at risk for STDs. There are plenty of lubricants on the market. Here are just a few:
Anal Lube™ does just what it says—lubes your anus for insertion. It’s simple, straightforward and water-based, making it an easy cleanup.
Maximus is another water-based lube that has the consistency of a lotion, lasts a long time, and helps prevent the spreading of bacteria, fungi spores and yeast infections, making it perfect for anal play.
Colt™ Slick™ Lubricant is water-based, leaves no stains, is easily washed off, and can be used with sex toys made of all kinds of materials.
Experiment with different lubricant brands to find the one that is the most effective and most comfortable for you (some like it thin and slick, others prefer it thick and messy), and always make sure that the type of lubricant is compatible with the material makeup of your toys or condoms. Water-based lubricants are a sure thing with all sex toys, but, if you want to play in the shower, the lubricant will wash right off! Silicone-based lubricants should not be used with silicone toys because they actually damage the toy. They are, however, a great choice for playing in water, and don’t dry up like water-based lubricants—which also makes for a more challenging cleanup. And finally, petroleum-based lubricants are thick and long lasting, but should not be used with latex toys or condoms, because they destroy the latex.
One more note about lubricants. There are ointments on the market that actually numb the nerve endings in your asshole, the point being to avoid discomfort. Now why would you want to deaden the highly erogenous zone you’re about to bring to life? If you are so uptight about anal sex hurting that you want to sedate your asshole, then you probably shouldn’t even be going there in the first place. These desensitizing products contain ingredients that are not healthy, infection being only one of the dangers. Don’t even consider using them.
From lubricants to toy options, going for the gusto of prostate pleasure is a fantastic and incredibly fun journey. So take your time, make lubricant and toy choices that best suit your needs, play it safe, and treat your anus like the family jewel that it is. Pucker Up!
Universal water works system anal kit
Get naughty while you get clean with this sexy shower-powered douche kit. Three attachments, a kink-free hose, and all the hookups you'll need to start a wet and wild time are included.
The flexible nickel-free hose connects to your sink, tub faucet, or shower to give you over six feet of maneuvering room. A handy multi-directional valve can be adjusted to redirect the water to the toy or through the faucet for ease of use Read more >>>
Expanding your Horizon
There are a couple of ways to become accustomed to larger sized toys when it’s time to massage that P-spot. You may think, “Hey, if this three inch dildo is doing the trick, why do I need to have something stuck further up there?” To put the anal in analogy, asshole is to dildo as mouth is to potato chip. The more you put in there, the more you want in there. Face it. You’re not going to know that bigger intensifies the stimulation until you try a larger dildo, which will continuously massage your prostate on its in/out journey. This is where you go from pressing the prostate once just so you can pop a quick one to having an intangible, magnificent build-up inside that peaks with an eardrum banging climax. A persistent barrage of prostate stimulation can make you surrender your entire sexual being, leaving you hyperventilating and whimpering mixed messages of “Stop! More! Stop! More!” This treatment can lead some men to have an orgasm without even touching their penises. Now isn’t that the kind of goal you want to strive for in life???
Aneros Vice – Prostate Massager
Aneros Vice – Prostate Massager
The Aneros Vice is the first and currently only silicone Aneros available. It has the same basic design as the Aneros Progasm with some minor differences. The Progasm is made out of plastic and the Vice is made out of silicone. The other main difference is that unlike the rest of the Anero' family, the Vice has a removable vibrating bullet. The bullet adds a new element to the experience and can be used both with the Aneros Vice and alone on its own. The fact that it is made of silicone means the toy can be sterilized and thus shared. Silicone also holds a given temperature longer allowing for temperature play in which you can either heat up or cool down the toy before insertion for a different sensation.
Performance: The best thing about the Aneros Vice by far is the vibrations. There are very few vibrating butt toys that are of high quality and good design. The Aneros Vice is both. It has a great design that is only marred slightly by the fact that the silicone is not quite as smooth as the other plastic Aneros. Given that it would be very difficult to have a removable vibrating bullet in a plastic body due to plastic's inability to grip, this is an acceptable loss and is overcome by an adequate amount of lube. While the bullet stays in place very well, it sticks out far enough that with a little force it can be removed for cleaning. There are a wide variety of vibration patterns that are quite an enjoyable addition to an already pleasurable toy. The quietness of the bullet is also an added bonus and could even allow for use of the bullet when out and about. Even without the bullet in, the Aneros Vice holds its shape fairly well making it very versatile. A Great Buy - click here !
Aneros Helix – Prostate Massager
The Helix is part of the next generation prostate massagers by Aneros™. This high-quality line of toys was designed by doctors to help promote prostatic health, but men (as well as women) found that using these toys provided more than just good health; they produced earth-shattering orgasms too. Aneros™ prostate massagers are hands-free, controlled by the tightening and clenching of your pelvic floor muscles - A Great Buy - click here >>>